For almost every family carer the answer is powder-free nitrile, in a size that fits your hand properly. It is latex-free, so neither of you can have an allergic reaction to it, and it resists tearing far better than vinyl.
Supporting a relative at home, with gloves that fit properly
The three materials
Material
Good for
Watch out for
Nitrile
Almost all home care
Slightly dearer than vinyl, worth it
Vinyl
Very short, low-risk tasks
Tears easily, weaker barrier
Latex
Fine dexterity work
Allergy risk for either of you
Latex allergy is the reason most care settings have moved away from it. It can develop over time with repeated exposure, so a person who has used latex gloves for years without trouble can still become sensitised. At home, where you may be the only person doing this every day, that risk is not worth taking.
Getting the size right
Size matters more than people expect. Measure across your palm at the knuckles, excluding the thumb, and match it to the table below.
Palm width
Size
Under 70mm
XS
70 to 80mm
S
80 to 95mm
M
95 to 110mm
L
Over 110mm
XL
Too small and the glove splits at the web between thumb and finger, usually as you put it on
Too large and loose fingertips make fiddly jobs such as buttons, dressings or medicine pots harder
If two people share the caring, buy both sizes rather than compromising on one
A steadying hand, where grip and fit matter
Powder-free, always
Powdered gloves were once common and are now avoided. The powder can irritate skin, carries latex proteins into the air where latex gloves are used, and leaves residue on whatever you touch. Every glove worth buying today is powder-free.
A slightly better glove used once beats a cheaper glove used twice, and it is kinder to the skin of the person you care for.
OMS Clinical Team
How many to buy
Changing gloves properly between tasks means six to ten pairs on an ordinary day of personal care. A box of 100 covers roughly a fortnight. Buying at that scale is not overbuying, it is what stops you rationing gloves at the point when you should be changing them.
What gloves are best for caring for an elderly relative?
Powder-free nitrile in a size that fits your hand properly. It is latex-free, so neither of you can react to it, and it resists tearing far better than vinyl.
How do I know my glove size?
Measure across your palm at the knuckles, excluding the thumb. Under 70mm is XS, 70 to 80mm is S, 80 to 95mm is M, 95 to 110mm is L and over 110mm is XL.
Should I avoid latex gloves?
At home, yes, in most cases. Latex allergy can develop over time with repeated exposure, so someone who has used latex for years can still become sensitised. Nitrile avoids that risk entirely.